Bulging biceps. Chiseled pecs. Taut tushes.
The gym is part of their daily regimen.
They look great in — or out of — their clothes.
I describe these guys as”hunkalicious.”
Sometimes the only muscles they’ve developed are below the neck. Holding an extended conversation about anything of intellectual value is a challenge.
But sometimes they have the whole package. Buff and brainy. Fit and funny. Athletic and articulate.
This was the description of #103 who I met a few days ago. He is a refreshing mix of uncommon characteristics. I was initially drawn to him because of his online pictures, and his profile revealed a well-spoken man. I was pleased that the man in person was thoughtful, respectful and easy going.
I, too, have stereotyped buff men. I’ve thought they wouldn’t be interested in me because I’m not buff and wouldn’t want to spend a lot of time in the gym, although I do exercise.
I’m actually glad to find out I’m wrong in those assumptions.
What assumptions have you made about men’s values, priorities and intellectual capacity based on their rippling muscles?
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